My dad woke up one morning feeling, as he put it, Not quite right and a bit wobbly. In being the strong-willed, tenacious, non-complainer that he is, he figured it was just part of the package of being 80 years old.

However, after a few days of these lingering effects, he decided to go see his doctor. Upon calling the doctor's office, he was told that they had an appointment opening in ten minutes. He took it knowing that my mom had their only car and he would, therefore, need to ride his bike about a mile up to the clinic.

Once he got there and saw the doctor, my dad was directed to go to the hospital A.S.A.P. to be further evaluated. He told the doctor that he would ride his bike home, call my mom, and go to the hospital.

Ride your bike'!!...You rode your bike here'!! exclaimed the doctor.

You see, the doctor suspected that my dad may have had a stroke, hence, his very strong reaction to bicycle riding.

My dad went to the hospital (my mom picked him up at the doctors office, and they put the bike in the trunk of their car); had all the tests and various scans; and in the end it was determined that he did, in fact, have a minor stroke.

I spoke to him after he got back home from all the testing and although he said he felt a bit tired, he was quite okay overall. You see, my dad is always okay, and that is why I am embracing this day as my own personal Fathers Day...A day for me to reflect on and have gratitude for all that my dad has given to me. I would like to share some that with you.

• Tenacious My dad doesnt quit and although his tenacity boarders on full-blown stubbornness at times, he is quite the model of following-through to the end, in spite of adversities.

• Keeping What Works My dad was quite a basketball player. At five feet nine inches, and weighing in at about 160 pounds, he was never very big, but he played big with his old-fashioned two-handed set-shot. Nothing too fancy; just a little shake-and-bake, and then swish. I can remember seeing him hit four, five, and six in row. He kept what worked because it worked for him and there was no reason to change it.

• Commitment My dad has been married to my mom for over 55 years, and although I dont quite understand their relationship some of the time, they have stuck together through hell and high-water. Their commitment to their relationship, and to each other, speaks of a loyalty that is quite uncommon today.

• Adventure We traveled and camped a lot in my growing up years. We took 6 weeks one summer and camped all the way across the U.S., from New York to the Pacific coast, and back again. I got a great appreciation of roughing it and the outdoors...I am sure that has a lot to do with my persistent desire to travel to new places whenever I can.

• Spirituality Although my dad and I have a very different spiritual path, I am grateful for having been brought up in an environment that had some spiritual emphasis in it. I dont know where I would be today without my spirituality.

• Creativity Although he will adamantly deny it, my dad is very creative. Especially so in the way he uses his space and his resources.

• Problem Solving Perhaps a bit over-zealous at times (He has been known to create problems which he then has to resolve), my dad is a master at brain-storming and working out a problem. He is a great fixer.

• Smart My dad is smart...real smart, but rather humble about it (except when we are playing a board game or card game, then he gets smartly competitive). Im sure that a significant part of the various intelligences that I have today are a direct result of my dads role modeling.

• Love My dad loves me. Although he was not as available as I would have liked in my growing up years; was grumpy and crabby at times; and has been emotionally distant at other times, I know without a doubt that my dad loves me. He has always been there when I needed him and he has been an amazing provider. I know that I would not be where I am in my life today if it was not for his abundant love and support.

I share all this with you today for one reason: All we have is today and we do not know what tomorrow will bring or take away. If you have resentments towards a loved one, I invite you to work through them and let them go. If you havent told a loved one lately how much you care about them, then pick the phone and do that today. I know Im sounding a bit preachy, and yet I do believe this message needs to be heard.

I invite you, and challenge you, to create an attitude of gratitude by looking at what you DO have a result of your relationships with others. It is so much easier, and so much lighter, to be grateful than it is to be resentful.

Furthermore, I invite you to create your own day; your fathers day, mothers day, brothers or sisters day, or friends day. Celebrate the gratitude, and spread the good news. After all, all you have is today...